Mr. Good Enough: Better Than No Man At All?

Are you that woman that thinks she is the whole package, but wonders why she is still alone? You sit there thinking you are more accomplished, worldly, attractive, open-minded, ______– fill in the blank for me–than all those married women–and yet, others are hitched or have partners and you sit at home with the remote [...]

Reality TV Star To Write Self-Help Book

So apparently the self-help/dating genre needs another book, and well, with all the single women in NYC, maybe I can’t argue with that. But, from a reality TV star and one that has yet to experience the quarter-life-crisis? How old is “Lo” Bosworth anyway? According to the release, “Lo has certainly witnessed her fair share [...]

The Last Desi

For those of you that don’t know was a Desi is, it refers to someone from India, loosely translated. In some American movies, they’ll refer to the first generation child of Indian immigrants as an ABCD, American Born Confused Desi. This is the child that is so hell bent on seeming American that the parents [...]

Cougars Help Drive Lingerie Sales

Apparently the cougar phenomenon is helping one British retailer sell lingerie. According to a recent analysis of sales, Debenhams credits the cougar phenomenon, which it claims is partially supported by Sex in the City, with helping to boost lingerie sales. The report says that women over 40 are buying more lingerie, a new trend, because [...]

Jane to Glamour’s Jake: A Sexual Recession

It appears Hank Moody is the man guys want to be and women want to fuck. Now, if we all want to screw him, or his type, that should tell you straight men something: we don’t all want a ring from you. A commitment would be nice, but there are many of us that like “Jake,” go through our daily routine with a stream of consciousness thought process that does not involve soccer practice or a tuna casserole.

The Good Wait vs. Mr. Good Enough

I hate to be the one to liken women to cell phones or cars, but as a six-year veteran of the NYC dating scene, it must be done. All of this came up during a phone call with my mother, who by 22 was married and by 33, had three kids and a house. You [...]

Polyamory in the City

Women are crazy and men are lucky. I guess that what us hetero NYC women have been told to accept. The real truth is women are trying to live up to a fairytale and men in NYC are inundated with pussy. And dick. But for now we’re tackling the ones that can’t dress and think [...]